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HER Review Hong Kong November 2026: Scam or real hot dates?

HER is the world's largest dating app for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women. All about Her in Hong Kong.
3.5good
Screenshot of the Her website
HER is a dating app for LGBTQ women and queer people that also works as a social platform
  • Claims to be the most popular lesbian dating app
  • Available on iOS and Android
Relationships Finding love Flirts
Is Her right for me?
last updated
Estimated active members in Hong Kong3,770
Women / Men 100% 0%
FromHK$58.59/mo
Age 18-24 25-34 35-44

Her Hong Kong in 10 seconds

  • Claims to be the most popular lesbian dating app in the world
  • Sets itself apart from others by being an app made for LGBTQ+ women and queer folks
  • Also serves a social media platform where members can post status updates
  • Most members are from the United States
  • HER is available for iOS and Android users
  • The app has occasional bugs and glitches
  • Offers general free services and options to upgrade: Learn more here

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Is Her right for you?

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Who is Her for, and not for?

Her is for…
  • For women looking for serious relationships and deep commitments
  • For single women who want to fall in love
  • Welcomes all LGBTQ+ women and queer individuals
…and not for
  • If you're searching for erotic adventures and casual encounters
  • Not for straight and conservative individuals
  • Not for people who have BDSM lifestyles

Her pros & cons

  • All profiles have photos
  • Has active social media engagements
  • Provides matches based on location and preferences
  • Registration is only via Facebook or Instagram
  • No manual search option
  • Has no available web version

What Her really costs in Hong Kong

Compared with other dating services, Her is average-priced.
Premium
12 Month subscription. You pay once for a year of Premium features, the monthly cost is the lowest, and it renews unless you cancel.Total
1 month 117.11 HKD / month 117.11 HKD
6 months 93.74 HKD / month 562.42 HKD
12 months 58.59 HKD / month 703.05 HKD
Our pick: 12 months for 703.05 HKD, that is 58.59 HKD per month, 50% less per month than 1 month.
Her costs last updated on Nov 1, 2026
Payment options in Hong Kong
Credit CardVia Mobile PhoneApp Store
No anonymous payment.With Her you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
The company does not publish what the statement shows and the checkout page or first invoice tells
Her costs screenshot

If you cancel your premium subscription, you can still use the benefits of the membership until the end of the period. But you won't be refunded for the remaining days. When it's due to renew, your premium membership will be inactive and you won't be billed again. You can only ask for a refund within a month of a transaction.

Uninstalling the app or deleting your profile doesn't automatically cancel your subscription.

Free vs. paid services in Hong Kong
FeatureFreePremium
Profile creation includedincluded
View profiles includedincluded
Send and receive messages includedincluded
Notifications includedincluded
MeetSwipe left and right on profiles presented includedincluded
FeedLike and comment on posts and you can upload your own includedincluded
Online Now not includedincluded
Who Has Liked My Profile not includedincluded
Change Location not includedincluded
Unlimited Swipes not includedincluded
Read ReceiptsSee when your message was read not includedincluded
Rewind Profiles not includedincluded
With Free, you can create a profile, view profiles, use Meet, use the Feed, and send and receive messages. Premium adds profile activity tools and extra controls.
Is Her right for me?

Who is signed up on Her in Hong Kong?

Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on Her from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history.

HER is a dating platform for women of different orientations. Members include lesbians, bisexuals, and queers. HER members are looking for love and relationship.

Most members are young adults and are from the United States. The members are active and responsive with 350,000 weekly logins.

3,770-48%
Rough estimate of active members
2,000
Weekly active members in Hong Kong
8,000
Members in Hong Kong
4.5
App Store rating in Hong Kong
4.2
Google Play rating worldwide
MayJunJulAugSepOct
Estimated active members, last 6 months
Gender
WomenMen
100%0%
Gender
Age of members
18-2425-3435-4445-5455+
25%
18-24
32%
25-34
21%
35-44
13%
45-54
9%
55+
Age of members

Last data update: October 2026

How does Her work?

Specifically designed for LGBTQ+ women, including lesbians, bisexuals, and queers

Users must sign up through Facebook or Instagram, available on iOS and Android platforms

Utilizes a swipe mechanism for liking profiles, with matches formed through mutual likes

Offers a social feed for interactions and posts events to encourage community engagement

Basic services are free, with premium features like seeing who's online and unlimited swipes available through subscription

Making contact on Her

★★★★★ 3.0/5

  • You can only send messages to Friends and Matches
  • No manual search option
  • Swiping left or right match function
  • Upgrade to see who "Liked" you
  • Sending friend requests is free

Profile quality

★★★★★ 3.0/5

  • Apart from photos, you can also upload text items
  • 8 photos are the optimum number of uploads (according to their stats)
  • You can view other members' friends list
  • Profiles are only on their first names
  • Shows their distance from current your location

Our field test

★★★★★ 3.0/5

"The app isn't the best for the dating part. The profiles are either too insubstantial, or some of the girls I talk to end up ghosting me. There's just not a lot do unless you upgrade to premium. However, I loved using this app to see which events will be attended by a big number of lesbians, since my gaydar in public isn't always the best. I've met a lot of great girls through that alone, and some of them I ended up going on dates with." Bella, 24

"I've read tons of good reviews about Hers so I've decided to try it. Well, I got no regrets! It's the best among all the female-exlcusive apps. But still not the best dating app though. Overall, it is a good app, it has a good design, the price is just good. So I'm all good." -Sheena, 27

Design & usability

The design of the app is modern and sophisticated. Colours used for the app are pleasing to the eyes and the app is generally organised.

It is easy to use even for those who are just not familiar with dating apps.

Since it is part dating app and part social media platform, members have more things to do with it. They can also know more about other users by reading their posts and status updates. It is also one way for members to voice out what they are feeling without worrying about being judged,

Special features

HER created some special features exclusively curated for lesbians to meet and interact.

Finding people 1

MeetFree

Meet is the main feature of the entire app. Here you are presented with different profiles who meet your age and distance preference. You can swipe to either like or dismiss them. Once you mutually like each other or are friends, you can message each other.

Community and events 2

FeedFree

The feed is a feature that lets you interact with members real-time without needing to be matches or friends. You can like or comment on posts, and you can add your own image or text post. Being active on this feature exposes you to more people and increases your visibility.

EventsFree

Events can be viewed and posted in the Feed. The best lesbian events in your area are posted here: from music festivals to cookouts to concerts to comedy shows. Attending these events will let you meet and socialize with lesbians.

Other extras 1

FeelingsFree

This feature lets you express your dating mood and intentions in real time through temporary, customizable tags, offering a more fluid and emotionally authentic way to connect in queer dating.

Final results

3.5
“LGBTQ online dating can be intimidating in a straight-oriented industry, and HER has achieved its goal of solving just that. HER isn't originally a gay dating app just translated for lesbians, but an app with only queer women in mind from the very start. However, its re-branding from Dattch to HER in 2015 changed its system from 'lesbian dating app' to 'lesbian social app'. Yes, you will find women here, but you'll never know if they want to date or something more platonic. If you want other sites and apps that are more straightforward about dating, check our Matchmaking service category.”

Chris Pleines, Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Is Her right for me?
tested November 2026
Signup3.0
Making contact3.0
Profile quality3.0
Field test3.0
Overall3.5/ 5

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Compare Her with other dating sites

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Activity
3,770 est. active members
1,000 members
6,000 members
Costs and pricesPremium
1 month:
117.11 HKD / month
6 months:
93.74 HKD / month
12 months:
58.59 HKD / month
Subscription
1 month:
268.00 HKD / month
3 months:
182.67 HKD / month
6 months:
143.00 HKD / month
Gold membership
1 month:
200.00 HKD / month
3 months:
133.33 HKD / month
12 months:
66.67 HKD / month
Free features
Profile creation
View profiles
Send and receive messages
Notifications
Meet
Feed
Send up to 50 winks a day
Upload up to 26 photos
Search for people by location
Create a favourites list
Respond to a message sent by premium members
Access to Spark Feature
Registration
Profile creation
Upload photos
Basic matching
Send interest
Communicate with premium members
Premium features
Online Now
Who Has Liked My Profile
Change Location
Unlimited Swipes
Read Receipts
Rewind Profiles
Message anyone
Who's viewed you
See who likes you
Unlimited rewinds
Customize profile privacy
Advanced search
Unlimited likes and winks
Discover new members
Browse by distance
Change username
Communicate with all members
No ads
Hide profile and browse anonymously
Rank above other members
Double profile space
Exclusive search features
Advanced matching algorithms
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Cancelling your Her subscription

Terms at a glance

Minimum ageFrom 18 years
Renews automaticallyYes
Money-back guaranteeNo

Checked in the terms of Her on Nov 4, 2026.

How you can cancel

  • Via your profile settings on Her
  • Via the app store's subscription management

Contact details

Address2101 Pacific Avenue Apt 401 San Francisco CA, 94115
Emailsupport@weareher.com

Do subscriptions auto-renew?

Subscriptions renew automatically.

Money-back guarantee

  • Her does not offer a money-back guarantee

From the terms & conditions

  • If you do not wish to accept a price change, you may cancel your subscription in line with the notice you get and the steps below
  • If you received a discounted promotional offer, your price may go up after the initial subscription period for any later renewal period
  • If you cancel an installment plan before all payments are made, the remaining balance stays due unless law says otherwise
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Her FAQ

When was HER created?

Dattch was created in 2013 and it was renamed to HER in 2015.

When will the HER app be on Android?

The HER app is already available for both Android and iOS devices.

Where can I read HER's success stories?

You'll find success stories on the Blog section of their official website.

Are there fake profiles on the HER app?

They take extra measures (only allowing log-ins from Facebook and Instagram) to weed out fake profiles, but it would be best to err on the side of common sense and report users you find suspicious.

USABILITY

How do I unblock someone on HER?

Blocking people is a permanent action and can't be undone.

How do I send a message on HER?

You can only send messages to Friends and Matches. You can get them by adding someone as a friend, and by liking people who have already liked you.

The app won't let me log in.

Make sure you are using the latest version of the app. If you're still encountering problems, you may contact their support team.

Make sure you are using the latest version of the app. If you're still encountering problems, you may contact their support team.

You can sign up using your Instagram account.

What does "user not available" mean?

This notice means the other person already deleted their account. Even though you can still your messaging history, you won't be able to see their profile or send a message anymore.

How do I change my profile picture on HER?

On the bottom of the screen, select "Me". You will find a white pencil icon on the bottom right corner of your current profile picture. Click on this to change your photo.

Can I cancel a friend request on HER?

No, you can't. But once she confirms it, you can just remove her from your friends list.

Does HER post to Facebook?

No, it won't. The HER team doesn't even have the capacity to.

Can I change my location?

Yes, but only after you purchase a premium membership.

CANCEL

How do I cancel my premium membership?

You have to go the App Store or Play Store in your device, find where your subscriptions are being managed, and follow the instructions from there.

How do I delete my HER account?

Go to "My Profile", select "Settings", then "Support", and finally choose "Close account". Once you delete your account, it can't be reactivated.

Can I get a refund from HER?

HER says purchases are generally nonrefundable. There is no refund for partly used or unused subscription periods or Virtual Items.

You did not find your question? Ask us!

Security

Does Her sell your data?
No, Her does not sell your data.
Was Her hacked in the past?
No, Her was never hacked.
How accurately does Her track your location?
Her tracks your approximate location.
Do your Her profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?
No, your Her photos and personal information will not appear in Google Search Results.
Who can view your pictures on Her?
All Her users can view your pictures.
Is your phone number required for signing up at Her?
Yes, a phone number is required for signing up at Her.
Can you erase your personal data on Her?
Yes, Her provides an option for users to erase their data.

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Chris founded DatingScout 17 years ago, and today he is one of the leading Online Dating Experts. He is the author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies" and the author of the Internet's largest online dating study analyzing 20 Million Profile Pictures with artificial intelligence. Chris Pleines holds a master degree in media science and appeared in numerous television interviews and publications to give expert advice as well as tips about online dating.

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